The Meeting Place

We had an awesome Halloween weekend all around. Friday and Saturday night's were both a blast and the costumes on Saturday were really a lot of fun, some of you are very creative. Our Winners were B for the funniest costume he was our male cheerleader, P for the sexiest she was the sexiest Dorothy from the wizard of Oz I'd ever seen, S for the scariest, not sure what she called her costume, I was calling her the dark bride, she was all decked out in black lace, her face was all ghoulish, and she had black roses and a black flower wreath on her head, totally awesome, and R for the most original, he was as he typically is very creative, he was a tampon, yep that's right even down to his red string dangling off his tennis shoe.

All of our winners received a free party coupon for them to use as a couple. So we hope you all enjoy them really soon. CJ already gave you her insight on everything, but I want to take a moment to thank her personally for all that great food she made. Everything was just awesome and we got lots of compliments. I also want to thank our staff members, you all did a fantastic job of keeping things under control. Dave as always the music was fabulous, Diane and Dennis I know you guys were exhausted after all our prep work on Saturday afternoon and all your running on Saturday night, so thank you both, you are truly appreciated. Mary and Celes thank you for all your prep work as well, and for helping me at the door when you could. Sue and Omar thanks for your help in the bar area, we appreciate it. And thanks to everyone who picked up, cleaned up and just helped out in general, all of the staff thanks you for that. None of the staff is paid, we are all volunteer and when you help clean your own messes it makes it just that much easier for us to do our jobs and still enjoy the party ourselves.

I do want to comment here to about what the club is about. Our club is about meeting people, coming out having a good time meeting new like minded people and possibly playing around. I say this because sometimes I think people forget the purpose of the club, some people think just because they are there sex is a sure thing, sorry but that's not the case. I think some people also assume we have a fully paid staff so they don't need to respect the place because someone else will clean it up. The club first of all is Phyllis' home, it's not just a place of business or your weekend hang out, she still lives there the rest of the week, and it should be respected as someone's home, just as you would expect guests to respect your home. The staff was never expected to be a maid service, as I said none of us is paid, we do this because we like helping out and we all love Phyllis. I say this because we had a lot of accidents in the bathrooms this weekend, and really you should be cleaning this up yourselves, not leaving it for someone else to find. At the very least have the decency to come and tell someone so we can clean it up right away before anyone else has to deal with it. The club is also not a place to come and drink to excess, we've had a lot of this going on lately and it's really not the purpose for being there. If you are so nervous about swinging that you need to drink yourself stupid then maybe this isn't the right place for you to be. Having a few drinks while your sitting around meeting people is perfectly fine, but if you are drinking to the point of vomiting, or passing out, you really need to stop way before this point. We also highly recommend that if you are drinking plan on spending the night, it is still against the law to drink and drive and we would hate to see you get stopped for something so stupid, or worse hurt yourselves or others. I was glad to see so many of you choose to stay on Saturday night.

The parties at the club are fun and wonderful, and we all want you to have a good time. A few bad apples won't spoil the whole bunch but sometimes it does put a damper on the evening when people come across messes they'd rather not deal with. I'm just asking you to be more respectful of Phyllis and her home. We want everyone to be able to enjoy their experience at TMP. For those of you already doing this, we thank you, and we love having you as members of our club. If you do need help with something while at the club, please find a staff member, we all wear name tags that say staff, and we'd be more than happy to help you. Ok done with my little rant now.

Join us next Saturday for the pole Dance competition, we want to see the men out there too, and a few of you that were there this weekend we know you can do it we saw you. If you have a special song request for that night, leave a comment on this post before Thursday so I have time to find your music.

Have a great week!
Trish

Labels: adult party, fun, swingers parties, themes

WOW - what a night!! The place was packed - there were about 50 couples there to enjoy the fun of an old fashioned Halloween party. We had fun Halloween themed food - eyeball cookies, ghosts of chocolate, lumbermen's fingers, and much more - even a cauldron of smoking punch!. Almost everyone participated in the costume contest - the winners were a "super absorbant tampon", a very sexy "Dorothy" from the Wizard of OZ, a scarey bride, and a very buxom male cheerleader. Thanks to all who participated - it was a lot of fun.
Beds were at a premium after the festivities - if you moved to go get a drink, you were out of luck cuz others were waiting to grab that bed and have a little fun themselves! More than we have ever seen (in our short association with the club!) stayed the night to enjoy and relax.
This coming week will be the pole dancing contest! Men - don't be shy - show us gals that you can be just as sensuous as the women are on that pole! The DJ will have music that will work for all. We look forward to seeing a lot of people there again this week.
Have a great week all and we look forward to seeing you this week!
CJ

Labels: adult party, fun, swingers parties, themes

Well before I had a chance to introduce our newest Blog member, she snuck in and got her first post off. TMP welcomes CJ to our blog team, so hopefully all of you people sick of hearing from me will get a different perspective on the place........LOL. Thanks for joining the team CJ. We will hopefully be adding in a few more team members, it's nice to hear others opinions on things. CJ is one of our newer club members (a few months), her and her Hubby have been at TMP just about every weekend since they joined the club and we love having them there. CJ has also graciously agreed to make the majority of the food for Halloween and she has some awesome stuff planned for all of you. She is one of our club members on injured reserve as well, starting to think we might need a TMP hospital soon or at least a table for all of you injured people.....lol, so we also wish her a speedy recovery and hope she gets out of her cast really soon.

Trish

The Meeting Place Hi All: I have to agree with Trisha - we all had a great time on Saturday night playing charades, even though some of the things we had to describe made us just look simply stupid!!!! Those that participated still had fun - now if we could get everyone to participate............!
It was great to meet the new couples of the group (2 couples who had not been there in a while and 1 new newbie couple). I hope that they continue to come and enjoy themselves as we do.
This coming week will be the annual Halloween Party!!! If you loved Halloween as a child then you will love this party just as much, we have some really great things planned for all to have fun with.
Look forward to seeing you all at The Meeting Place real soon!
CJ

Friday's part was really great, lots of good people and lots of laughs. Friday's just seem to keep growing, which is awesome. We hope more and more of you can make it out on Friday nights.

Saturday night we had an awesome party as well, we had 2 couples who haven't been back in years, it was really nice to have you join us again. We also had 1 new couple, so welcome to TMP we hope you enjoyed your time there. As well as lots of couples who frequent TMP, always a pleasure to have you all, you all help to make TMP a special place.

Charades was our game for the night, and it went really well, even if all the members of team 2 chickened out. We still had 3 teams play, and everyone had a lot of fun, although we have decided that our lovely C will have to be teamed up with L for our next team game as it seems that C is always on the last place team and L always on the first, and we want to give them both a chance to see the other side.

Our Charades game had a sexy theme, and all of the movies, music, places, and misc items all had some sexy side, even if the acting out of these wasn't always sexy to watch....lol. We still had a blast and our winning couples each received $5 off party coupons. We did all agree that our version of picti*nary was more fun, but this worked too. We're still looking for game ideas, so feel free to offer up suggestions.

Next weekend is our famous Halloween party, we already have lots of reservations, and the club has been decked out in lots of Halloween fun. We'll have lots of great food and games to play as well as the costume contest. So if you haven't reserved your place yet do so now so you can get the discount at the door, we're expecting a full house and this party is the one you don't want to miss. See the links at the left for reservation information, all reservations must be in by Thursday October 26th.

We look forward to seeing all of you next weekend. Please remember the weekend special does not apply for this Friday night, so Friday will be full price if you plan on partying the whole weekend. You also may not use coupons or free party passes for the Halloween party.

Have a great week everyone!
Trish

Labels: adult party, fun, swingers parties, themes

Friday night we had an excellent party. Lots of couples still taking advantage of our whole weekend special. Pay Saturday's price on Friday and get Friday free, in other words.....$50 for the whole weekend. Such a deal!

Saturday I just have to say this was a great crowd. You all made the scavenger hunt a success! Congratulations to our winning couples, we had a tie for second place C & L and P&D both won $10 off party coupons, and our big Winners for the night were T & M who received a coupon for a 1/2 price party.

All of our club guest spent an hour seeking out all sorts of things, from someone wearing a thong to the location of the humping pigs. No not real pigs....silly people. We actually had 4 couples who found someone one of them shared a birthday with, there were all sorts of other things to find. Like someone who has tried bondage, or someone who has had sex on a beach. Everyone scrambled to get all their sheets filled as fast as possible, and in the end no one actually finished completely, but our winners only missed 5 answers, quite impressive.

This was a great"get to know you" game and it got everyone talking to one another. It was nice to see so many of you continue talking and mingling beyond the game, that's the whole point in these games is to just break the ice for you, after that it's up to you.

To the staff, I just have to say I was told personally by at least 3 different people what a wonderful job you all are doing, so thank you to each and everyone of you on our team, you are what makes TMP a success, and I know Phyllis appreciates all your hard work. Sue even though you couldn't be with us, I just want to say what a trooper you were for coming last week, still on injured reserve and taking over as "pit boss" and Diane, you this week, coming in with those fantastic cookies and still helping out where you could the day after surgery. This is what team work is all about, even if we'd all love to tell you both to just sit and relax, your always right there helping where you can. I know I can speak for all of the staff and regulars at the club who know you both we all wish you a speedy recovery.

Next Saturday join us for Charades, we all know by now just how much fun everyone had with picti*nary, Charades should prove to equally as fun, maybe not as challenging for some but definitely just as much fun. The the following weekend, you all must join us for our Annual Halloween Bash, this year we are taking a step backwards into our childhood Halloween parties and having some fun kid style, you'll have to join us to see all the goodies we have in store for you. Don't forget to get those reservations in now before it's too late, reservations will only be accepted until October 26th.

That's it for this week! See you all Friday!
Trish

Friday we had a great party at TMP, it seems every weekend more and more people are taking advantage of the Friday night free when you pay for Saturday. Just awesome and the party size is growing. So if you want 2 nights of partying in a row take advantage of it yourself.

Saturday we had a smaller crowd the way Saturdays have been going, but that's ok everyone had a great time. Well maybe except for our very own DJ Dave who had a front row seat for the strip poker game. It seems our ladies are better poker players then our gentlemen, and Andy was our big looser of the night. A couple of the ladies played so well, that they didn't loose a piece of clothing, much to the men's dismay. They even developed their own penalty besides loosing clothing, they had to do a swing around the pole as well. It really looked like they all had a bunch of laughs, now maybe if we could get everyone to join in next time.

Our thanks to Sue for doing a good job as the pit boss, as well as trying to be Andrea, not sure anyone has her kind of energy, but you did a great job. Andy thanks for keeping the table honest and running the game.

We celebrated some belated Birthdays as well 2 of our staff members, Diane (who didn't want us to know her birthday was Sept. 22nd, but she made the mistake and told me anyway) and Andy who missed out last week due to a family engagement. Happy Belated Birthday to you both. Now we just need to find out when Dennis' Birthday is, since he won't share and we'll eventually get him too.

Speaking of Birthday's if your at TMP celebrating your birthday, you are more than welcome to bring a cake. Spouses, we love embarrassing your partner for you, we will get them out on the floor and sing to them in our wonderful TMP fashion, so let us know you've brought a cake and we will help you celebrate your special night.

I posted all of our events just before this post so scroll down and see all of the great stuff we have planned through the rest of the year. Pick out your favorite events and plan on joining us for some fun. If you have suggestions for more games or ideas about themes, please leave us a message in the guest book or use the suggestion box at the club.

See you soon at TMP!
Trish

Friday was a slower night, smaller than our last few Fridays, but a nice group was there and I'm sure they had a good time.

Saturday....Pictionary was awesome! It was our best group game thus far, and everyone had an absolute blast. The entire club played, which makes it that much more fun. We divided everyone into teams as they came in the door, each couple was given a team number. We got all our teams together and they drew their hearts out.

Team 1 won with the most overall points. Each couple on that team got a $5 off coupon for a party. Poor team 4 was a bit confused and needed some help with some unfamiliar terms. The phrase "I'll show you later" became really popular among the players. The question seemed to be "What is that?" . I think we stumped them with some of the more unusual sexual terms, but that's ok learning something new can be really interesting, and we hoped they all learned what those terms were later through demonstration.

The evening went on after the game with our very own DJ Dave filling up the dance floor with our loveliest ladies. J even managed to get the guys to hit the floor for the chicken dance, not sure she gave them much of a choice, but it was all good fun. The excitement from the game carried over into the rest of the night, there was a lot of chatter and mingling going on into the wee hours of the morning. I can't wait for our upcoming games, and hope they go just as well. It seems to be a great way to break the ice and get everyone feeling involved.

We hope you enjoyed our version of the game and you will join us for future games and events.

Have a great week everyone!
Trish