The Meeting Place

Hi All,
Well it was suggested that I post this for everyone to read, here are some great tips for all you single men out there looking to have a great time as a swinger. This was posted by a very special member of our group who has been a single man in the lifestyle for a very long time. Hope it helps.

Sue

Hey all.... Here goes my thoughts again... After having been ask a
number of times how a single male get in to the swinging lifestyle,
I thought I'd share this bit of information..

Single males have gotten a bad rap... and the reason why, is because
a lot of the approaches that they have made in the past are
unwelcome in the swinging lifestyle. Well, single males.. here are
some tips for you to gain fun, friendships, and success in the
swinging lifestyle.

10 Quick Tips
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#1. Always remember no means no. It doesn't mean that you insist on
pushing on and trying more. Will elaborate more on this later.

#2. When contacting a swinger group, couple or single females to try
to have some fun with them, never expect after an email that you
will be invited or meeting for drinks that night. There are alot of
groups,couples and single females out there that would much rather
chat and get to know you via yahoo messenger etc., before ever
meeting.

#3.) When you find someone on a yahoo profile that looks
interesting to you, please make sure and read their profile. There
are sometime that groups or couples are just looking for a bi-female
or couples. So if the profile says No single males don't even waste
your time contacting them.

#4.) Be respectful when contact a person, couple or group that
interests you. Let them know your age, location. and your interests.
sexual and non-sexual. Also when describing what you like sexually
don't describe things in a distasteful way. Example: instead of
saying. "I like my cock sucked". or " like to fuck ladies in the
ass". Tell them that you enjoy oral and performing anal on a lady.

#5.) Within your reach, When contacting a lady, couple or make
sure that they are located fairly close to you... and if not. it
would be somewhere that you are going to be traveling to over the
next couple of months.

#6.) Never write a single lady, couple or group when you will be
going to their town the next day if you've never chatted with them
before-- your chances are slim and none that you will be successful
finding someone or be invited to a party. Example: "Hey,.. I'll be
in town tomorrow in room 315 at the Hilton.. would you like to come
to my room for some fun?" Or can I just drop in to check it out.
That doesn't work in the swinging lifestyle if you've never been in
contact with this woman, couple or group before.

#7.) While chatting or emailing with a couple, female or group,
never push the issue to meet or be invited. Pushy will never get
you anywhere.

#8.) Respect all issues with couples, single females or groups. If
couples or females inside a group or outside, insist on the use
condoms, don't push the issue not to. Talk about everything with the
couples or single females before meeting or being invited. All the
do's and don'ts find out before meeting anybody or being invited. It
ensures better success. Do not expect sex with anybody the first
time you meet them or get invited in!! And remember. NO MEANS NO

#9.) If you are playing as a single male MAKE sure you are
single... and if not, that your wife does know about your
participation in the swinging lifestyle. Cause if not, you're not
Swinging. You're cheating. That will subject your new found friends
to your scandal.. And NO one, wants to be a part of someone else's
dishonesty.

#10.)Just remember. Treat others with respect and always be honest
and open-- when you do, you will gain friendship and trust. Trust is
a must in the swinging lifestyle and people aren't just a fuck.
There are many people in the swinging lifestyle that build life
friendships.

Would like any feedback from all of you couples and singles out
there on this and what you thought of it. And if you'd like to add
anything to this (couples and single females)...

For the single Males.. I know that some of you are seasoned
swingers, but there are some guys out there that would like to know
and understand the swinging lifestyle, that is why I wrote this


Thanks again,