The Meeting Place

We had a really nice party this past Friday, and 1 new couple joined us for that. We had quite a few couples there taking advantage of that Friday special and getting it free when they paid for Saturday. It was a nice relaxing evening spent getting to know one another better.

Saturday night's party got off to an early start, we had quite a few guests arriving before 9:00, so that was really nice. We had a whole bunch of new couples for Saturday nights party. 7 to be exact and 3 single ladies who came with 3 of the couples. So welcome to T, T & R, B who came with B& S, S & G, S & C, B & K, K who came with S & S (newbies from last weekend) , A & J, K & K and D& D. We hope you all had a wonderful time, I did get to spend some time talking with some of you after the party and I know you all said it was a lot of fun. We hope to see you all back really soon.

We had 3 Birthday's in the house as well so Happy Birthday to T, M & A......we hope you all enjoyed your dances on the floor.

So with all the intros and getting the newbies acquainted with everything we had our Wet T-shirt and Sexy buns contest. We had 5 guys compete for the sexy buns and I think we had 12 ladies, sorry I lost count there. K was our winner for the sexy buns, but we gave all the guys a participation prize just cause they had the guts to get up and do it. For the ladies we had a tie between J & B and Dave just couldn't get a clear winner by applause after he did the 3 way tie breaker pole dance. So we gave it to both J & B.

Thanks to M for getting all the ladies wet, P for taking care of those guys, and to everyone that helped us get all the water off the floor afterwards, it was greatly appreciated.

Once we got the floor and everyone else all dried off Dave got the ladies on the floor for ladies dance and they did their thing out there on a packed floor and by the time the ladies were finished the guys were more than ready to join them. Shortly after that the upstairs got really active and people just had a great time. I know I saw the twister board and room getting used a lot, so I hope you all had fun with our over-sized game.

This coming weekend we have our Labor Day Party, the staff has come up with our own version of reality tv games for you to play all day on Saturday. We're going to make this a team type event and we will be picking and talking with team captains from those who are there on Friday night. We will take time to lay out everything going on for them to give them the opportunity to share that with their teams as people arrive on Saturday. So come on out and have some fun with us. We'll have some great food all weekend long and some games I'm sure will bring a few smiles. Saturday and Sunday night Dave will be keeping the dance floor going and we may even have a few surprises in store for all of you. I know we have 2 Birthday girls that will be there so far celebrating with us, both of whose names start with a C.

The following weekend is our Gigolo night party, we know you love to make those guys earn that money, and we'll have 2 more C named girls there celebrating our birthday's so they'll even have a few extra bucks to spend on you guys. The Weekend of the 15th we are doing a Pirate theme and we're going to be having a Treasure Hunt and there will be a prize for the winning team who can figure out the clues the fastest.

The weekend of the 22nd is our next Pot Luck, these parties have been so much fun. It's a great time to just kick back and relax and really get to know people. What better way to do that then over some great food. The theme for the evening is lingerie, so everyone should be participating in this one, pull out that stuff you've been wanting to show off and just kick back and relax.

Check out our website for all of the rest of the years events. We've worked very hard to come up with some interesting and unique events for all of you, but they can only be as fun as you make them. So let yourselves go a bit and have fun in our Adult's Only Playground.

See you all at TMP!

Trish

We just had another incredible weekend. Friday night was a nice smaller party, but with great company and a lot of laughs we had a really great time. Welcome back to a couple of old friends from TMP we hope you had a safe journey back home on your bikes. We also had a new lady join us Friday night, welcome to you C, we hope you had a blast all weekend long.

Saturday nights at TMP have gotten pretty wild and crazy and this past Saturday was no exception. We surpassed our numbers for Hooker night last week and we just had a ball. We had 5, yep that says 5 new couples, so welcome to all of you, we hope your experience was a great one and you will all return back to TMP in the near future. We started off the night with some nice mellow music, then we got Dave in his booth to get the dance floor moving. After he got everyone all nice and warmed up dancing we got them all cooled back off with a frozen T-shirt game. We raced to see who could get on their frozen T-shirt the fastest, thanks R for being a good sport about your shirt......it was all just in fun. D was in 1st place and we had 2 ladies follow close behind him. Some of the ladies who had really been working up some heat on the dance floor really appreciated the cold frozen T-shirt to cool them off.

Next we held our contest for the best use of a towel, P took away the prize for that one, but I have to say some of you got really creative with them. D's was creative even if he had to take a lot of flack for the cocks. Next up was ladies dance and Dave got the floor going once again, only this time it was just for the ladies and our favorite non gender specific mascot ED, Ed sort of got drug out onto the floor to share some time with the ladies, so congrats to you Ed on your first ladies dance! Dave followed that up with some audience participation songs and completely filled the dance floor, you were a great group for getting out there and having some fun.

We celebrated 4 birthday's as well and all 3 of the ladies and the 1 gentleman all got their birthday dances, Happy Birthday to all of you, we hope you all had a great time. Thanks too to everyone who got up to help them celebrate.

Later as the downstairs emptied out the upstairs quickly filled up and that's where I'm sure the best fun was had, by the noises around we know at least some of you were having a really really good time.

Join us next week for our Wet T-shirt/ Sexy Buns contest, always a favorite at TMP. The weekend after is of course Labor Day, we have some really exciting games and events planned for this weekend, so make plans to join us. This is the last week to make reservations for the discount, please send reservations to reservations@meetingplacemichigan.com, include your names and let us know which nights you will be attending. Pricing information is on the events page of the website. Any reservations made after Sunday August 26th will not receive the discounts, if you don't get a chance to make a reservation, you are still more than welcome to come for the full price, the reservations just give us an idea of how many to plan for.

Have a great week everyone!

Trish

Hey ALL,
It is great to be back posting again 0n the blog. Hopefully I can also add a little insight to your readings!!!
Well this past Saturday was a night of many events. We started the evening with a potluck. What a way to start an evening - good food, good friends, and good conversation. If you have not been to one here, try to make it - we will be doing them at least once a month - they are really worth it. You get to meet new friends under a less sexual atmosphere and make connections before you consider the sexual connections. You may even get to play a little topless volleyball!!!
Hooker night took off with bang. We started by playing a little human bingo to get to know each other and then the money began to flow. There was a lot of tit flashing, cock sucking, and lap dancing, along with other things that a girl could do to make a buck! I think the girls had a great time and the guys.......well I didn't hear a one complaining except when they ran out of money! Congrats to our two winners who tied with the most money!
After Hooker night ended we were privileged to have Master C and his lovely wife give a demonstration on the Safe, Sane, and Consentual world of BDSM. Now to some this may seem a little over the edge - a cruel punishment, torture - and why would one want to do this? There was a part of me that did feel that way until I was allowed to participate in the demonstration. After being FULLY briefed about what would be happening, I was dressed from neck to crotch with ropes and strategically placed knots. Then my arms were bound in front of me and my right leg was immobilized. With a strategically placed vibrator I was able to get off with out a single person touching me!!! While this was happening, my hubby L went through some genital torture and was bound from balls to cock. Finally the hardest part f the demo was to watch the lovely T receive a flogging. When the first lash came across her back, it seemed so horrible, yet she continued to take it even after reassuring us she was fine. I would have have thought it was horrible until I asked the Master to demonstrate on me - the rush was unbelievable and I would try to do it again if allowed. Thank you Master C for your eye opening demo!
Well til next time, ciao for now.
CJ

Hello Everybody,

My name is Sylvia. If you don't know who I am for that I am sorry. Trish has been excellent enough to ask me to contribute to the blog, so you will all have to listen to my views. If you have a problem with them you can leave a comment below.

We being my lovely husband Larry and I went to the club on Friday. I have always enjoyed the Friday parties. They are a little more laid back and you get to know people better. There is just something about sitting around flirting and drinking and letting the work week role off of you. I got to talk to an interesting bloke and his wife who told stories of his homeland and swinger clubs there. I also got to talk to my neighbors. Yes I said neighbors. I always enjoy talking to her she is very funny. I also talked to the couple that grows the best tomatoes in the world. I will tell you though his outfit was better on Saturday than on Friday. The skirt was the best. If only I had your legs. :)

We came back on Saturday, for my favorite theme night, HOOKER NIGHT!!! I came in ready to party. I was not let down. The place was crowded. I missed the pot luck and all the great food. There was some great left overs though. I started off playing human bingo. Interesting game. I had to find people that could sign my sheet. Let me tell you there is a lot of people that shave, have piercing, my favorite have had anonymous sex. That got a lot of people up and moving. I didn't win though I could not find anyone that wears boy shorts. I must be the only one. After that HOOKER NIGHT started. Let me tell you. I got to act naughty and got paid for it. How fun is that!!!! There was a lot of girls who participated and earned a lot of money. One thing I didn't see was any guys complaining, who would there was alot of hot women there. There was alot of lap dancing, flashing, and all around loving on all those horney hot guys. See what you missed because you're at home!!!! You also missed those hot women doing the pole, and I saw some girl on girl kissing also. Wait, that was me and some of those hot women.

I also got the pleasure of watching some master and sub fun. Thank you for that. I heard some stuff how that might have bothered some people. Oh well, we all have different ways we get off. I feel unless you try something you best not judge because sometime down the road you could enjoy it too. Have someone spank you or flog you, it is a whole different experience. To each his own.

A big shout out to my new friends D & L. Hope to see you soon.



So my blog lesson for the week. Get off your asses and come to the club. I will guarantee that you will have better sex with your partner, because you will either get pissed because he or she had too much fun and you get to have make up sex or you will find that special unicorn. Thank you for that phrase dave.



sylvia

If you missed the party the past weekend you missed a whole lot of fun. We had 12 couples in the house on Friday night, 1 of them new so welcome to you. I don't know about the rest of you but David and I had some awesome conversations with everyone and a lot of laughs. The Friday special has taken off in a big way, what a difference a free party makes.


Saturday was just amazing, most of the couples who joined us Friday either stuck around for the day Saturday or came back Saturday night. We had a lot of fun all day long. When it came time for the Pot Luck dinner we probably had 18 couples and a few more that trickled in during the middle, and the food was incredible. Just to give you all a sample of what we had besides hamburgers and hot dogs (Thanks C & L for cooking those up) we had some of the best ribs I have ever had, hot wings which Dave just thought were awesome, some very excellent chips and dips, terrific assorted salads, R's famous baked beans, and a whole bunch of awesome sweets. You all can cook your butts off. Sorry M that you didn't get any of that shortcake.....it was da bomb ......hahahahahaha.


The food although wonderful isn't the best part of our monthly Pot Luck's it's the people and the real community feel it gives to everyone. This is a time to just meet people, sit and relax with good food and great company. There's none of the tension you might feel through the rest of the party, there's no nervousness, it's just people getting together for a meal and getting to know one another. The noise level from the conversations around the room was just a joy to hear, it was just everyone having a good time. I really suggest if you new and nervous about coming to a club for your first time, make plans to come to a pot luck, it's just so easy to get to know everyone over some great food. I have to say too the classical music in the background Dave treated us to for a while made for a really relaxing atmosphere and just something nice and light for dinner.


After dinner many people moved outside to the deck for a game of topless volleyball, there we're probably as many spectators as there were players but everyone had a very enjoyable time. Those that chose not to hit the outdoors spent time getting ready for our hooker night game. So we had a lot of plans for that night and after we got all the food moved upstairs, we got things rolling. We started off the night with a game of human bingo, there were so many new people, or people who hadn't been to the club in a while that we wanted to get everyone up and talking. This game works like a charm.


After we did 2 rounds of Bingo, we moved onto our Hooker night game. Let me tell you, some of these ladies worked their butts off, but we know they had fun doing it. Our winners for the night actually tied, it was J and A who took away the prizes. This too though got a lot of people talking and turned up the heat of the party. By the time the game ended we had a packed house, probably our best party since Memorial Day. Dave then got the ladies up for ladies dance, while the rest of the staff prepared the upstairs for our BDSM demonstration.


We we're fortunate enough to have a professional Master (Dominant) in the house on Friday night and we convinced him to show off his talents using volunteers from the club. We quickly found 2 of the 3 needed volunteers who we're both pretty excited about the possibilities. They would be volunteering for the bondage demonstrations.


I would like to point out here before I get into what exactly was done that Master C had lengthy conversations with the 3 of us individually prior to everything that was done, please keep this in mind as you read the description below. He also spoke with our spouses and made sure there were no problems there as well. We knew exactly what to expect and nothing was done that he did not have permission from us to do, which included including others. We all had words and actions, if we could not use words, to get us out of anything being done at anytime. There was never a time when something was done to any of us that we didn't expect or give permission for. This is what safe, sane and consensual means and Master C followed that to the letter.


We used the Twister(Long) room for the demonstration, and I'm pretty sure we had 100% participation during the bondage demonstration. Master C was very good at explaining everything he was doing and making sure to point out the safety aspects of it all. Master C first made a rope dress for C to wear and then bound her hands in front of her. Then he bound L's arms behind his back while Master C's wife did some bondage on his genital area and invited the ladies to give him some pleasure. Master C went back to C and had her lie down on the bed and people we're invited up to heighten her senses, M took him up on that and used a vibe on her, she was quickly having an awesome time. After a while he placed the vibe inside the ropes across her stomach and let the vibrations travel down to the rope between her legs, she had multiple orgasms this way, and it was very interesting to watch.


Then it was my turn, I got up and disrobed (which was actually the hardest part of all of this for me) I was told to use the wall to brace myself against with my arms and once he explained to everyone what was going to happen he began flogging my back. Now I know to many people who watched it probably looked pretty bad, but I have to be honest here and say it felt much like a deep tissue massage. I knew I could hear a few people behind me gasp or make sounds of worry, so I asked if it would be ok for me to let them know I was ok. Master C agreed and I turned around with a smile and let them all know I was fine, and told them it really did feel like a massage. We resumed the demonstration, I know many people left the rooms during this, and that's ok because it's not for everyone, but there was never a time when I couldn't have stopped what was going on and I in fact did not because of what Master C was doing but because my arms we're sore and I was just in a bad position. I just wanted to make sure everyone knew that, and if you've never experienced it before, I'll admit it was probably much harder to watch than it was to do. I actually enjoyed myself and I learned a few things. Those I will keep to myself since it really was a pretty personal experience. I do know that C even though she was bound did watch this demo and she herself found it hard to watch but after it was all over and she asked me about it, and I explained, she asked if she could try it out. Master C obliged and she found it to be quite enjoyable. I won't add to that, I'll let her tell whom ever she likes, because I can't speak for her, but I can tell you she and I were all smiles the rest of the night and probably the rest of the weekend. I will say again this is not for everyone, but it was a demonstration meant to teach and maybe even take away some of the curiosity that exists about certain aspects of BDSM. I want to thank Master C and his wife C for giving us such a great demonstration and taking the time out of their play time to do it for us, from me, I was pleased to volunteer and had a very good time.


Any one who wants more information of anything that was demonstrated or if you weren't there and have a curiosity I urge you to look into it further, do some research on the Internet, there's plenty of good information out there if your willing to take the time to search it out. Just like with swinging anything related to BDSM can be customized to fit into your relationship and it should go by what you think and feel. This is not a form of abuse, this is to heighten the senses and you should find pleasure in what you are doing. When gathering information make sure it's from a reputable source and don't ever let someone else tell you the way you have chosen to do something is wrong, unless it's unsafe. Make Safety and Caution your number 1 priority when attempting anything like this, and if your attempting bondage in any form have a back up plan in place to get someone out quickly and safely should the need arise. For his ropes Master C had ready a pair of medical safety scissors. So no matter what please play responsibly.


The party went on from there and I really think everyone had an awesome time. I know for me personally it was a really great night and one I won't forget for a very long time.


We have some great parties coming up over the coming months, while you are at the club feel free to take those events cards on the tables home with you so you have them for your personal schedule planning. If you need more because the ones on your table are missing there are extras over on the little bar in the back section of the meeting area. If you know people who want information about TMP was also have plenty of magnets on the front door and in the locker room, feel free to take those as well and pass them around.


Next Saturday is the Towel party, no you don't have to dress in a towel, that's merely a suggestion. We are however giving away a prize for the most creative use of a towel as an outfit. We will be playing a couple of games as well, one that's sure to cool you off, from this summer heat. The following week will be our Wet T-shirt/ Sexy Buns contest, always a popular event at TMP and we so enjoy getting you all wet. So mark your calendars and make your plans and we hope to see you all at the club.


Trish

Wow everyone what an awesome weekend! Friday night we had 10 couples and a single, some new faces too. We had a blast, welcome to P & J and M & A, and T who came with A. We had a return new couple welcome back to you as well, J & L. Plus some faces we see on a more regular basis, so we hope all of you just had a great time. It was really nice to meet all the new faces and spend some time together before the big party on Saturday.

Saturday night we started out slow, guess all of you were out enjoying the nice hot weather. As the night progressed though we had a full house and a whole lot of fun. Quite a few of our couples from Friday night took advantage of that Friday special and partied with us both nights. We had lots more join us throughout the night. A few faces I know haven't been back in a long time, and I know you all liked the changes too, so thank you for all the nice compliments.

To everyone one of you that comes out and parties at TMP, a few times a year, or once a month, and some of you each and every week, we love having you there and we're glad you keep coming back. It's because of you our staff works so hard to try and make each party as much fun as possible.

If you didn't get a chance to check out our harem night decor, come back over the next 2 weeks, we're gonna leave it up for awhile since our next couple of parties really don't have decor to go with them. We really loved the way it turned out and we hope you did too. It gives the meeting area sort of a warm feel, at least I thought so. Everyone who dressed up last night, you looked awesome too, and thank you for participating. A swing club really can only be as fun as you make it and those of you who participate by dressing up or playing the games make it so much more fun.

Speaking of games, ok, so I know Saturday nights was a little corny, but it was just meant to be fun and get you to meet at least one other person, so I hope you took at least a little time to meet with the person you got matched up with. At the very least it was good for a few laughs.

So things coming up:
This weekend, we have our monthly Pot Luck dinner. We'll be grilling out burgers and dogs and we're asking you all to bring a side dish to share. Don't cook? That's ok, feel free to pick up something store bought, or just come out and enjoy the company of others. These Pot Luck dinners have really been great for getting people talking before the party. It's been especially great for our newbies, they get to meet a few people before the whole crowd shows up and they're finding it much easier to walk into the bigger party because they already know a few people. So come check it out and don't be shy, this is for everyone. Already know what your bringing? great just send your names and what your bringing to reservations@meetingplacemichigan.com and we'll post your first initial and your dish on the website so we don't get too many doubles.

After the pot luck there will be plenty of time for the ladies to change and get ready for our Hooker Night game. If you've never played this at TMP before, it's always a lot of fun. The guys are given play money coming in the door and the ladies have to earn it. What you do to earn it is up to you, remember you never have to do anything you don't want to do. This game is just for fun to see whose the bravest of all and can earn the most money. So come eat, play, laugh and if your lucky "play" some more.

August doesn't stop there though. The 18th we have the Towel party, and ok maybe a towel is a little intimidating for some people and we understand that, so we're not telling you what size towel it has to be or how you have to wear it. In fact we're giving away a prize for the most creative use of a towel. So if being in a towel is a little intimidating to you, don't let that stop you, we're sure you can come up with a creative way to use it. We have plenty of towels too, your more than welcome to use them, just remember though the ones at the club aren't very big so if you want a bigger one you'll have to bring one from home.

Then the fun doesn't stop there, we're also going to give you a dot to hide, where you ask? Well somewhere on you, where on you....we'll let you decide, but you have to let someone other than your spouse search for it and when that person finds it, you must reveal something about yourself to them. Now for the shy people, get creative with your dot, feel free to use the words hot and cold when someone is close or far away, you can also tell them that's it's located where skin is already revealed, but what ever you do just don't give away that exact location.

Then one final contest that night, and this one is sure to cool you off if finding those dots got your all hot. We're going to give everyone at the same time a frozen, yep that says frozen T-shirt and we're going to have a race to see who can get theirs on the fastest....we'll leave the ideas for getting each other warmed back up up to you. So come join us for what should be a very cool hot night.

Check out the website for all of the events for the rest of this year. We will post more games and things as the events get closer, this will just give you a general idea.

See you all at the club,
Trish