Monday, August 13, 2007
Hooker night and oh so much more
If you missed the party the past weekend you missed a whole lot of fun. We had 12 couples in the house on Friday night, 1 of them new so welcome to you. I don't know about the rest of you but David and I had some awesome conversations with everyone and a lot of laughs. The Friday special has taken off in a big way, what a difference a free party makes.
Saturday was just amazing, most of the couples who joined us Friday either stuck around for the day Saturday or came back Saturday night. We had a lot of fun all day long. When it came time for the Pot Luck dinner we probably had 18 couples and a few more that trickled in during the middle, and the food was incredible. Just to give you all a sample of what we had besides hamburgers and hot dogs (Thanks C & L for cooking those up) we had some of the best ribs I have ever had, hot wings which Dave just thought were awesome, some very excellent chips and dips, terrific assorted salads, R's famous baked beans, and a whole bunch of awesome sweets. You all can cook your butts off. Sorry M that you didn't get any of that shortcake.....it was da bomb ......hahahahahaha.
The food although wonderful isn't the best part of our monthly Pot Luck's it's the people and the real community feel it gives to everyone. This is a time to just meet people, sit and relax with good food and great company. There's none of the tension you might feel through the rest of the party, there's no nervousness, it's just people getting together for a meal and getting to know one another. The noise level from the conversations around the room was just a joy to hear, it was just everyone having a good time. I really suggest if you new and nervous about coming to a club for your first time, make plans to come to a pot luck, it's just so easy to get to know everyone over some great food. I have to say too the classical music in the background Dave treated us to for a while made for a really relaxing atmosphere and just something nice and light for dinner.
After dinner many people moved outside to the deck for a game of topless volleyball, there we're probably as many spectators as there were players but everyone had a very enjoyable time. Those that chose not to hit the outdoors spent time getting ready for our hooker night game. So we had a lot of plans for that night and after we got all the food moved upstairs, we got things rolling. We started off the night with a game of human bingo, there were so many new people, or people who hadn't been to the club in a while that we wanted to get everyone up and talking. This game works like a charm.
After we did 2 rounds of Bingo, we moved onto our Hooker night game. Let me tell you, some of these ladies worked their butts off, but we know they had fun doing it. Our winners for the night actually tied, it was J and A who took away the prizes. This too though got a lot of people talking and turned up the heat of the party. By the time the game ended we had a packed house, probably our best party since Memorial Day. Dave then got the ladies up for ladies dance, while the rest of the staff prepared the upstairs for our BDSM demonstration.
We we're fortunate enough to have a professional Master (Dominant) in the house on Friday night and we convinced him to show off his talents using volunteers from the club. We quickly found 2 of the 3 needed volunteers who we're both pretty excited about the possibilities. They would be volunteering for the bondage demonstrations.
I would like to point out here before I get into what exactly was done that Master C had lengthy conversations with the 3 of us individually prior to everything that was done, please keep this in mind as you read the description below. He also spoke with our spouses and made sure there were no problems there as well. We knew exactly what to expect and nothing was done that he did not have permission from us to do, which included including others. We all had words and actions, if we could not use words, to get us out of anything being done at anytime. There was never a time when something was done to any of us that we didn't expect or give permission for. This is what safe, sane and consensual means and Master C followed that to the letter.
We used the Twister(Long) room for the demonstration, and I'm pretty sure we had 100% participation during the bondage demonstration. Master C was very good at explaining everything he was doing and making sure to point out the safety aspects of it all. Master C first made a rope dress for C to wear and then bound her hands in front of her. Then he bound L's arms behind his back while Master C's wife did some bondage on his genital area and invited the ladies to give him some pleasure. Master C went back to C and had her lie down on the bed and people we're invited up to heighten her senses, M took him up on that and used a vibe on her, she was quickly having an awesome time. After a while he placed the vibe inside the ropes across her stomach and let the vibrations travel down to the rope between her legs, she had multiple orgasms this way, and it was very interesting to watch.
Then it was my turn, I got up and disrobed (which was actually the hardest part of all of this for me) I was told to use the wall to brace myself against with my arms and once he explained to everyone what was going to happen he began flogging my back. Now I know to many people who watched it probably looked pretty bad, but I have to be honest here and say it felt much like a deep tissue massage. I knew I could hear a few people behind me gasp or make sounds of worry, so I asked if it would be ok for me to let them know I was ok. Master C agreed and I turned around with a smile and let them all know I was fine, and told them it really did feel like a massage. We resumed the demonstration, I know many people left the rooms during this, and that's ok because it's not for everyone, but there was never a time when I couldn't have stopped what was going on and I in fact did not because of what Master C was doing but because my arms we're sore and I was just in a bad position. I just wanted to make sure everyone knew that, and if you've never experienced it before, I'll admit it was probably much harder to watch than it was to do. I actually enjoyed myself and I learned a few things. Those I will keep to myself since it really was a pretty personal experience. I do know that C even though she was bound did watch this demo and she herself found it hard to watch but after it was all over and she asked me about it, and I explained, she asked if she could try it out. Master C obliged and she found it to be quite enjoyable. I won't add to that, I'll let her tell whom ever she likes, because I can't speak for her, but I can tell you she and I were all smiles the rest of the night and probably the rest of the weekend. I will say again this is not for everyone, but it was a demonstration meant to teach and maybe even take away some of the curiosity that exists about certain aspects of BDSM. I want to thank Master C and his wife C for giving us such a great demonstration and taking the time out of their play time to do it for us, from me, I was pleased to volunteer and had a very good time.
Any one who wants more information of anything that was demonstrated or if you weren't there and have a curiosity I urge you to look into it further, do some research on the Internet, there's plenty of good information out there if your willing to take the time to search it out. Just like with swinging anything related to BDSM can be customized to fit into your relationship and it should go by what you think and feel. This is not a form of abuse, this is to heighten the senses and you should find pleasure in what you are doing. When gathering information make sure it's from a reputable source and don't ever let someone else tell you the way you have chosen to do something is wrong, unless it's unsafe. Make Safety and Caution your number 1 priority when attempting anything like this, and if your attempting bondage in any form have a back up plan in place to get someone out quickly and safely should the need arise. For his ropes Master C had ready a pair of medical safety scissors. So no matter what please play responsibly.
The party went on from there and I really think everyone had an awesome time. I know for me personally it was a really great night and one I won't forget for a very long time.
We have some great parties coming up over the coming months, while you are at the club feel free to take those events cards on the tables home with you so you have them for your personal schedule planning. If you need more because the ones on your table are missing there are extras over on the little bar in the back section of the meeting area. If you know people who want information about TMP was also have plenty of magnets on the front door and in the locker room, feel free to take those as well and pass them around.
Next Saturday is the Towel party, no you don't have to dress in a towel, that's merely a suggestion. We are however giving away a prize for the most creative use of a towel as an outfit. We will be playing a couple of games as well, one that's sure to cool you off, from this summer heat. The following week will be our Wet T-shirt/ Sexy Buns contest, always a popular event at TMP and we so enjoy getting you all wet. So mark your calendars and make your plans and we hope to see you all at the club.
Trish
Saturday was just amazing, most of the couples who joined us Friday either stuck around for the day Saturday or came back Saturday night. We had a lot of fun all day long. When it came time for the Pot Luck dinner we probably had 18 couples and a few more that trickled in during the middle, and the food was incredible. Just to give you all a sample of what we had besides hamburgers and hot dogs (Thanks C & L for cooking those up) we had some of the best ribs I have ever had, hot wings which Dave just thought were awesome, some very excellent chips and dips, terrific assorted salads, R's famous baked beans, and a whole bunch of awesome sweets. You all can cook your butts off. Sorry M that you didn't get any of that shortcake.....it was da bomb ......hahahahahaha.
The food although wonderful isn't the best part of our monthly Pot Luck's it's the people and the real community feel it gives to everyone. This is a time to just meet people, sit and relax with good food and great company. There's none of the tension you might feel through the rest of the party, there's no nervousness, it's just people getting together for a meal and getting to know one another. The noise level from the conversations around the room was just a joy to hear, it was just everyone having a good time. I really suggest if you new and nervous about coming to a club for your first time, make plans to come to a pot luck, it's just so easy to get to know everyone over some great food. I have to say too the classical music in the background Dave treated us to for a while made for a really relaxing atmosphere and just something nice and light for dinner.
After dinner many people moved outside to the deck for a game of topless volleyball, there we're probably as many spectators as there were players but everyone had a very enjoyable time. Those that chose not to hit the outdoors spent time getting ready for our hooker night game. So we had a lot of plans for that night and after we got all the food moved upstairs, we got things rolling. We started off the night with a game of human bingo, there were so many new people, or people who hadn't been to the club in a while that we wanted to get everyone up and talking. This game works like a charm.
After we did 2 rounds of Bingo, we moved onto our Hooker night game. Let me tell you, some of these ladies worked their butts off, but we know they had fun doing it. Our winners for the night actually tied, it was J and A who took away the prizes. This too though got a lot of people talking and turned up the heat of the party. By the time the game ended we had a packed house, probably our best party since Memorial Day. Dave then got the ladies up for ladies dance, while the rest of the staff prepared the upstairs for our BDSM demonstration.
We we're fortunate enough to have a professional Master (Dominant) in the house on Friday night and we convinced him to show off his talents using volunteers from the club. We quickly found 2 of the 3 needed volunteers who we're both pretty excited about the possibilities. They would be volunteering for the bondage demonstrations.
I would like to point out here before I get into what exactly was done that Master C had lengthy conversations with the 3 of us individually prior to everything that was done, please keep this in mind as you read the description below. He also spoke with our spouses and made sure there were no problems there as well. We knew exactly what to expect and nothing was done that he did not have permission from us to do, which included including others. We all had words and actions, if we could not use words, to get us out of anything being done at anytime. There was never a time when something was done to any of us that we didn't expect or give permission for. This is what safe, sane and consensual means and Master C followed that to the letter.
We used the Twister(Long) room for the demonstration, and I'm pretty sure we had 100% participation during the bondage demonstration. Master C was very good at explaining everything he was doing and making sure to point out the safety aspects of it all. Master C first made a rope dress for C to wear and then bound her hands in front of her. Then he bound L's arms behind his back while Master C's wife did some bondage on his genital area and invited the ladies to give him some pleasure. Master C went back to C and had her lie down on the bed and people we're invited up to heighten her senses, M took him up on that and used a vibe on her, she was quickly having an awesome time. After a while he placed the vibe inside the ropes across her stomach and let the vibrations travel down to the rope between her legs, she had multiple orgasms this way, and it was very interesting to watch.
Then it was my turn, I got up and disrobed (which was actually the hardest part of all of this for me) I was told to use the wall to brace myself against with my arms and once he explained to everyone what was going to happen he began flogging my back. Now I know to many people who watched it probably looked pretty bad, but I have to be honest here and say it felt much like a deep tissue massage. I knew I could hear a few people behind me gasp or make sounds of worry, so I asked if it would be ok for me to let them know I was ok. Master C agreed and I turned around with a smile and let them all know I was fine, and told them it really did feel like a massage. We resumed the demonstration, I know many people left the rooms during this, and that's ok because it's not for everyone, but there was never a time when I couldn't have stopped what was going on and I in fact did not because of what Master C was doing but because my arms we're sore and I was just in a bad position. I just wanted to make sure everyone knew that, and if you've never experienced it before, I'll admit it was probably much harder to watch than it was to do. I actually enjoyed myself and I learned a few things. Those I will keep to myself since it really was a pretty personal experience. I do know that C even though she was bound did watch this demo and she herself found it hard to watch but after it was all over and she asked me about it, and I explained, she asked if she could try it out. Master C obliged and she found it to be quite enjoyable. I won't add to that, I'll let her tell whom ever she likes, because I can't speak for her, but I can tell you she and I were all smiles the rest of the night and probably the rest of the weekend. I will say again this is not for everyone, but it was a demonstration meant to teach and maybe even take away some of the curiosity that exists about certain aspects of BDSM. I want to thank Master C and his wife C for giving us such a great demonstration and taking the time out of their play time to do it for us, from me, I was pleased to volunteer and had a very good time.
Any one who wants more information of anything that was demonstrated or if you weren't there and have a curiosity I urge you to look into it further, do some research on the Internet, there's plenty of good information out there if your willing to take the time to search it out. Just like with swinging anything related to BDSM can be customized to fit into your relationship and it should go by what you think and feel. This is not a form of abuse, this is to heighten the senses and you should find pleasure in what you are doing. When gathering information make sure it's from a reputable source and don't ever let someone else tell you the way you have chosen to do something is wrong, unless it's unsafe. Make Safety and Caution your number 1 priority when attempting anything like this, and if your attempting bondage in any form have a back up plan in place to get someone out quickly and safely should the need arise. For his ropes Master C had ready a pair of medical safety scissors. So no matter what please play responsibly.
The party went on from there and I really think everyone had an awesome time. I know for me personally it was a really great night and one I won't forget for a very long time.
We have some great parties coming up over the coming months, while you are at the club feel free to take those events cards on the tables home with you so you have them for your personal schedule planning. If you need more because the ones on your table are missing there are extras over on the little bar in the back section of the meeting area. If you know people who want information about TMP was also have plenty of magnets on the front door and in the locker room, feel free to take those as well and pass them around.
Next Saturday is the Towel party, no you don't have to dress in a towel, that's merely a suggestion. We are however giving away a prize for the most creative use of a towel as an outfit. We will be playing a couple of games as well, one that's sure to cool you off, from this summer heat. The following week will be our Wet T-shirt/ Sexy Buns contest, always a popular event at TMP and we so enjoy getting you all wet. So mark your calendars and make your plans and we hope to see you all at the club.
Trish
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