The Meeting Place

February 17th Mardi Gras - Ladies.....Come out and get your beads, how do you get them.....Well ladies just like New Orleans on Fat Tuesday....You earn them. How? That's up to the gentlemen...All of our guys are given beads at the door....And the lady with the most at the end of the night is proclaimed the winner. There may even be a prize. Guys we've been asked a couple of times now if it's ok for you to bring your own beads along as well to give out, and the answer is absolutely yes, we will count those beads as well for the ladies.

February 24th Sports Night- Ok everyone should be participating in this one, this is an easy dress up theme. Come wearing your favorite sports apparel. We decided it was time we had a dress up theme the guys could even get into. Ladies no reason why sports can't still be sexy. We also decided that since sports will be the theme of the evening this would be a great time to do a TMP Sexy Olympics, so we have some sexy, sporty games planned for all of you to play and get to know one another better. We know there will be a Dicky Ring Toss, and a sexy relay and some other great things as well.

March 3rd Beach Party - Come wearing your favorite Beach attire, by this time of year most of us are so tired of winter, a night of fun in the sun, even if it is pretend will be very welcomed. We'll be doing the Limbo and tossing around the beach balls, so come out and have a good time.

March 10th Hooker Night - This is always a really popular game night at TMP, all of our gentlemen are given a set amount of cash at the door that they can spend on our ladies as they see fit. The lady who had earned the most by the end of the game is declared our top lady of the evening.

March 17th St. Pat's Party - The Wearing of the Green, even those of you who aren't Irish can be Irish this one day of the year, but make sure your wearing green, we may have some pinchers in the crowd. We discussed this whole wearing of the green thing and decided we're all kind of tired of green usually by this day, so how about the wearing of the Orange, orange is an Irish color too and so under-rated.

March 24th Gigilo Night - Ok Guys this is your turn to earn the money from the ladies. Our last Gigilo night got the ladies going really good, and we loved spending that play money. This time we've heard you all talking and there's been some challenges made, so the ladies are expecting you all to come through for them. So come on out and show off a little and earn some of that play money, who will be crowned King Gigilo is up to you ladies.

March 31st Leather and Lace Night - This is a dress up theme everyone can get into. Wear your prettiest lace or your sexiest leather and come out for a night of fun.


April 7th Pretty Panties and Funny Boxers - This is another dress up theme, for the ladies wear your prettiest panties ( the DJ is partial to boys shorts for anyone interested) For the Guys bring out those funny boxers, we know you all have them.

April 14 Human BINGO - This is a new one we're trying out at TMP. Everyone will be given Bingo cards, and compete to find people matching the descriptions on their cards (similar to the scavenger hunt for anyone whose played that) We will give you a BINGO pattern to complete and the one who gets BINGO first wins. We may play on several different cards depending on participation, and maybe even give out a prize or 2.

April 21st Hot Legs and Best Buns Competition - We will have a Hot Legs contest for the ladies, so break out those short skirts and your best heels and show off those sexy legs. For the Guys, this will be your turn to get wet, we will be having a Wet Buns competition, the guys with the best butt will be proclaimed our winner. Ladies will get to vote for the guys and guys for the ladies. We will crown our winners MS. Sexy Legs and Mr. Best Buns for the evening.

April 28th Sexy Pictionary - This has really become a club favorite. We play similar to the board game, except we use teams and of course adult terms. Each team picks a member to draw, that person comes up picks a term or word from the bowl and draws it while his or her team mates try and guess what they are drawing. This one usually get the whole club involved as well as a lot of laughs to go around, so come out and play a great game with us. For anyone who wants to practice there is a free rated G online version of this game, click here, or if you have a Yahoo ID you can play their version here.

May 5th Fiesta Night - In honor of Cinco de Mayo we will be having our own Fiesta night, feel free to dress for the theme. We will have some great Mexican munchies as well as a pinata ( even if it's not what you would call a traditional pinata) and some other goodies. So join us for a wonderful celebration.

May 12th Pole Dance Competition - The last time we did this competition we had some great dances and a whole lot of great sports, so we figured we'd try again. We got the newbies even up on the pole last time, as well as some very entertaining gentlemen, so let get everyone out and try the pole. I'm sure we can dig up some prizes for our best dancers.

May 19th Wet T-shirt Competition - Our last 2 were such big hits we decided we need to keep getting the ladies wet more often, besides we know you guys love it. Our last one we know a few people who really wanted to be there missed out because of bad weather, others of you braved the snow and cold anyway to get in on the competition, so we're looking at a really big turn out for this competition, all of the ladies have been really creative in cutting up those shirts we provide and making them as sexy as possible. So come on in and be prepared to get creative and get wet.

May 25th - 27th Memorial Day Weekend - Let's all bring in summer with a huge weekend long party at TMP. Phyllis throws the best parties in the Midwest, but our three day weekends are always just the most fun you can possibly have in one weekends time. We provide breakfast, lunch and dinner on both Saturday and Sunday nights, so you never even have to leave the club. If the weather is nice I'm sure we can have some more fun with water out in the yard, and even catch some sun on the decks. We will have special pricing available for the whole weekend, and as soon as that's all set up we will begin taking reservations. I will get more information posted as it becomes available so keep checking back for it.


Hope to see everyone out at some of these events, I will keep updating this post as future events become available. Remember you can also call the club to see what's going on. If you have questions or need a better explanation please don't hesitate to ask you can use the e-mail questions button to the right to e-mail any questions you may have. Remember the only stupid questions are the ones not asked. Please just don't ask about prizes, we usually don't decide on them until the night of the party, we have to keep some things a surprise.
Trish

Labels: FAQ, fun, games, swingers parties, themes

I hope everyone had a wonderful Holiday. I just want to say Friday night was really awesome with everyone being there and sharing a holiday meal with all of you. The food everyone brought was awesome, and I hope we can continue that as a tradition in the years to come. Sometimes it's just really nice to sit and talk for an evening with friends and just celebrate together. Thank you to everyone who came and shared in the Holiday parties at TMP.

Looking ahead, New Years looks like it is just going to be one heck of a weekend party. We have at least 25 couples who are coming for the entire weekend, and at least that many more who will be there for Saturday and/or Sunday. So if you are still considering coming out for the weekend, I know you won't be disappointed with this party. We will have a DJ both Saturday and Sunday nights, breakfast lunch and dinner on Saturday and Sunday as well as breakfast on Monday morning. I'm sure we can think of ways to pass the time in between nightly parties. We do have some games available as well as cards for anyone who wants to use them.

If you can't make it out for New Years that's ok too, we have a party every Friday and Saturday night, with a theme or event every Saturday. We hope to see everyone out at the club at least a few times in 2007. Happy Holidays everyone!
Trish

Well the holidays are upon us and as usual they are busy for all. The Friday evening part was a wonderful get together of friends. After a good deal of eating (we had a wonderful potluck), most sat around talking and getting to know each other even better. We had a wonderful time with friends.

At this busy time of the year, we would like to wish every one a wonderful holiday. Please be safe and enjoy. We look forward to the New Year arriving and to the fun and friends that await in that new year.

Holiday blessings to all.

CJ

PS: Thank you to all who donated to the Toys for Tots campaign. We were able to make the Christmas of a few kids much better than they would have normally had. Again, thanks. We look forward to hosting this project again next year.

The Party on Friday's are still a nice size, a lot of people taking advantage of the Friday special. We knew this party would be smaller with all the Holiday events going on, but it was still a nice party and everyone had a good time.

On a personal note I wanted to thank everyone that was there Saturday night to help celebrate my birthday, even though I wasn't feeling very well you all made it a special night. So thank you all of you.

There will still be a party this coming Friday and Saturday night. Friday we will be having a pot luck dinner so if you would like to bring a dish to share please do. Saturday will be the X-mas party, the house is all decorated in pretty garland and lights so come out and enjoy.

Remember the 23rd is also the last day to make reservations for the New Years weekend. If you only plan on coming 1 night, no reservation is necessary but the reservations for the whole weekend will get you a discount of over $40.

Thank you to everyone that brought in Toys, for our Toys for Tots collection. I know they will make some kids very happy this Holiday.

Have a great Week everyone, and if I don't see you before Christmas, I hope you have a wonderful safe Holiday.
Trish

Labels: adult party, fun, swingers parties, themes

We had an excellent party on Friday night, although it was a bit cold, everyone managed to find a way to keep warm. Those of you that were there, the second furnace is working once again, thank you for your patience.

Saturday night we tried out a Gigilo night. The ladies had asked for it after our ever popular Hooker night. It started out a bit slow, we have some really shy guys, but we had one that was brave enough to get the party started. B offered himself up first, and to get the others playing some of the staff ladies posed a challenge to the men that would let them have the opportunity to earn $400 play money for danicing for us. We got 2 brave men to do that. Eventually a few other men jumped into the game and we all had a blast. We ended the game with a tie, J and B both earned $9,000 in play money. So we had them draw high card to determin the winner, and B won 1st place, J followed up in second and we had 1 gentlemen, M, who came in with only 1 hour left in the game and earned $7800 in play money, and he won 3rd. So congrats to all you lucky winners, we hope you all had fun participating. Enjoy using your party certificates for the various discounts.

Next Saturday we will be doing another team event, Adult Trivia. Don't worry CJ we will make sure you are never on team 4 again....lol. Our team events really seem to get people talking and laughing and just having a lot of fun. This will also be our last weekend for toys for tots, so please remember to bring in those new unwrapped toys and help out some needy kids this holiday.
The following weekend will be the club X-mas party, and don't forget to get your reservations in for New Years weekend. The final day to make reservations is December 23rd you can do that by following the reservations link on the right, calling the club or adding your name to the sheet by the door at the club.

Reservations are only to get you the discount on the entire weekend. If your only planning on coming for 1 night no reservation is necessary. Friday night will be a$35 donation, Saturday night a $60 donation, and Sunday a $75 donation, or with a reservation a $125 donation for all 3. Reservations help us plan for the meals we serve, it's so much easier when we know how many to plan meals for. We always make some extra but having a number to start with helps. We will serve breakfast, lunch and dinner on Saturday and Sunday, and breakfast on Monday morning. You are welcome to spend the entire weekend at the club, or head out here and there for some sight seeing or shopping, or what ever you choose.

So hope to see everyone at the club, if you can't make it out before the Holidays have a safe and happy one.
Trish

Labels: adult party, swing club, swingers club, swingers parties

Hi All,
Well it was suggested that I post this for everyone to read, here are some great tips for all you single men out there looking to have a great time as a swinger. This was posted by a very special member of our group who has been a single man in the lifestyle for a very long time. Hope it helps.

Sue

Hey all.... Here goes my thoughts again... After having been ask a
number of times how a single male get in to the swinging lifestyle,
I thought I'd share this bit of information..

Single males have gotten a bad rap... and the reason why, is because
a lot of the approaches that they have made in the past are
unwelcome in the swinging lifestyle. Well, single males.. here are
some tips for you to gain fun, friendships, and success in the
swinging lifestyle.

10 Quick Tips
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#1. Always remember no means no. It doesn't mean that you insist on
pushing on and trying more. Will elaborate more on this later.

#2. When contacting a swinger group, couple or single females to try
to have some fun with them, never expect after an email that you
will be invited or meeting for drinks that night. There are alot of
groups,couples and single females out there that would much rather
chat and get to know you via yahoo messenger etc., before ever
meeting.

#3.) When you find someone on a yahoo profile that looks
interesting to you, please make sure and read their profile. There
are sometime that groups or couples are just looking for a bi-female
or couples. So if the profile says No single males don't even waste
your time contacting them.

#4.) Be respectful when contact a person, couple or group that
interests you. Let them know your age, location. and your interests.
sexual and non-sexual. Also when describing what you like sexually
don't describe things in a distasteful way. Example: instead of
saying. "I like my cock sucked". or " like to fuck ladies in the
ass". Tell them that you enjoy oral and performing anal on a lady.

#5.) Within your reach, When contacting a lady, couple or make
sure that they are located fairly close to you... and if not. it
would be somewhere that you are going to be traveling to over the
next couple of months.

#6.) Never write a single lady, couple or group when you will be
going to their town the next day if you've never chatted with them
before-- your chances are slim and none that you will be successful
finding someone or be invited to a party. Example: "Hey,.. I'll be
in town tomorrow in room 315 at the Hilton.. would you like to come
to my room for some fun?" Or can I just drop in to check it out.
That doesn't work in the swinging lifestyle if you've never been in
contact with this woman, couple or group before.

#7.) While chatting or emailing with a couple, female or group,
never push the issue to meet or be invited. Pushy will never get
you anywhere.

#8.) Respect all issues with couples, single females or groups. If
couples or females inside a group or outside, insist on the use
condoms, don't push the issue not to. Talk about everything with the
couples or single females before meeting or being invited. All the
do's and don'ts find out before meeting anybody or being invited. It
ensures better success. Do not expect sex with anybody the first
time you meet them or get invited in!! And remember. NO MEANS NO

#9.) If you are playing as a single male MAKE sure you are
single... and if not, that your wife does know about your
participation in the swinging lifestyle. Cause if not, you're not
Swinging. You're cheating. That will subject your new found friends
to your scandal.. And NO one, wants to be a part of someone else's
dishonesty.

#10.)Just remember. Treat others with respect and always be honest
and open-- when you do, you will gain friendship and trust. Trust is
a must in the swinging lifestyle and people aren't just a fuck.
There are many people in the swinging lifestyle that build life
friendships.

Would like any feedback from all of you couples and singles out
there on this and what you thought of it. And if you'd like to add
anything to this (couples and single females)...

For the single Males.. I know that some of you are seasoned
swingers, but there are some guys out there that would like to know
and understand the swinging lifestyle, that is why I wrote this


Thanks again,

There was a definite disadvantage for a few of us this weekend!!! If you did not watch Tv or movies or know your singing artists, you were kind of up a creek. We played Assumed Identities which got us all around and meeting some people that we never knew were there on a regular basis. A great way to enjoy the company of the other people there.
Next week is "Gigilo Night" - Guys you better be ready to work to get those dollars!!! The women showed you how it was done a couple of months ago - let's see if you can do as well as they did.
Also, please don't forget that we are having a Toys for Tots campaign until December 16. Let's help out those kids that don't have all the wonder things that we have and give a little from our hearts.
Hope to see you all next week!!!
CJ

We had one of our new couples from last weekend post to our yahoo group. I just wanted to share this positive feedback with everyone. Thank you J for taking the time to write such a nice compliment. The only altering to her post I made was to remove their full names and replace them with initials.

Just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone that was at TMP lastweekend for welcoming us so warmly. I was not exactly thrilled aboutgoing to this place (J), W is up for anything. I really didn'tknow what to expect and am always afraid people will bum rush you atthe door expecting you to play but it was very cool and not too manypeople rushed us which was very nice. But not only did they not rushus they welcomed us and talked and hung out and such. That is thefirst time that has happened at any club on or off premise. We havenever been accepted into a club so unconditionally before.So thank you all so much. And we will definitely try to bring otherpeople there also. We are booked through January so we probably won'tbe back until the end of January. Looking forward to some fun in thenew year.J